SO we have been going to real SHARE group meetings now for about 4 weeks!! Its amazing and wonderful to make these connections with other couples. We are the "veteran" couple there and it is actually kind of enlightening to see just how far we have come. I hear the words that the others say and think "oh my god, I remember saying that!" There are a couple couples that I really like alot. Overall, it has been really great. I has though, brought up a slew of feelings and emotions that I wasn't ready for. It's all good though. I think sometimes that you need to revisit them just to remind yourself how far you have come and how far you still have to go.
On a happy note, my dear SHARE friend had a living breathing screaming baby girl about 7 weeks ago. She is beautiful and cute and my friend is over the moon. I couldn't be happier for her. Sqweeee!